How to talk about sex with your partner
As a journalist covering sex and intimacy, I spend a lot of time listening to experts extol the virtues of open and honest communication. To have good sex – and to continue having it over time – couples need to be willing to talk about it, they say.But some people would rather abandon their relationships than have those conversations, said Jeffrey Chernin, a marriage and family therapist and author of "Achieving Intimacy: How to Have a Loving Relationship That Lasts" — especially if things in the bedroom bed are not good. particularly well.“One of the things I often say to couples who are having problems is, 'I wish there was another way to get through this,'” she said. “But the only way I know to have a better sex life, or get your sex life back, is to talk about it.”Dr. Cherni...